Recent Podcasts for Becoming HER
Ep. 102 Girlboss Era Detox: Reclaiming the Feminine After Burnout & Success with NYT Best Seller Monica Yates
Have Men Gone Soft? Why Hyper-Independence is Killing Your Love Life w/ Monica Yates
E91 Embracing Feminine and Masculine Energy in Entrepreneurship with Monica Yates
Recent Interviews for Becoming HER
Recent Articles for Becoming HER
What's Inside
About the Book
You were never meant to carry it all.
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Are you tired of secretly fighting to prove your worth and ready to live from your radiance, not your resentment? In a world that tells women to be everything—boss babe, perfect partner, supermom, independent to a fault—Becoming HER is the invitation to finally put it all down.
Becoming HER is the first book to say what you’ve been thinking for years and cracks open the conversation no one else is willing to have. Monica breaks down the nuances of feminine energy in a way that makes it real, grounded, and tangible.
In this groundbreaking book, Monica Yates, a celebrated coach, a top 0.5% podcast host, and a New York Times bestselling author, shares her powerful H-E-R Framework™: Heal the trauma and societal conditioning that hold you back; Embody the woman you’re born to be, who balances her career, relationships, and personal well-being with ease; Radiate confidence and authenticity, creating a life of fulfillment and joy.​

Burnout is NOT a badge of honor.
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Packed with science-backed insights, raw personal stories, somatic healing wisdom, and magnetic truth-telling, Becoming HER explores:
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Modern feminism gave you choices—but did it forget to grant you permission to rest, receive, and embrace your soft, untamed feminine power?
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Why modern expectations are burning you out—and how you can break free.
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Healing your relationship with men and the power of embracing your feminine energy.
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How polarity in your relationships creates deep intimacy and satisfaction.
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The secrets to aligning your inner and outer worlds for lasting success and happiness.
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If you've ever whispered to yourself, "There has to be another way…," this is it.
About the Author
Monica Yates
Monica Yates is a renowned trauma healer, embodiment coach, and period expert committed to helping women achieve profound personal transformation. With nearly a decade of experience, she has guided tens of thousands of women to shed their masculine armor, embrace their feminine energy, and align their lives with authenticity and purpose.
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At the heart of Monica’s work lies her unique blend of somatic healing and embodiment practices to address trauma at its root. By integrating science-backed techniques with deep emotional exploration, she empowers clients to reconnect with their bodies, heal deeply held wounds, and create lasting change. Her philosophy emphasizes balancing feminine flow with masculine structure, fostering harmony across all areas of life.
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Monica’s passion for healing is deeply personal. Growing up between Australia and New York City, she initially saw her childhood as idyllic but later recognized patterns of external validation, body image struggles, and unhealthy relationships as signs of unresolved trauma. This realization fueled her commitment to understanding trauma’s effects on the body and mind, equipping her to support others on their journeys.
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Monica’s insights have been featured in Vogue, Glamour, and Men’s Health. She also hosts the Feminine as F*ck® podcast, which has over 3 million downloads, offering actionable advice and thought-provoking discussions on topics like trauma healing and feminine embodiment, resonating with a diverse audience who want something other than the mainstream black and white guidance for the growth they’re seeking.
You can find more information about Monica and her programs, as well as book her for your podcast or speaking engagement, at monicayateshealth.com.
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Becoming HER
BOOK EVENTS
​A fun, lighthearted evening complete with a reading from moi, some “bubbles + bites” to nibble on, a Q&A, and a book signing!
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PAST EVENTS
MONDAY
MARCH 31
5:30pm MST
DENVER, CO
Industrious
1801 California St #2400, Denver, CO 80202
WEDNESDAY
APRIL 2
5:30pm CST
AUSTIN, TX
Vintage Bookstore & Wine Bar
1101 E 11th St, Austin, TX 78702
TUESDAY
APRIL 8
12 - 1pm EST
NEW YORK CITY, NY
Barnes & Noble - 5th Avenue
TUESDAY
APRIL 8
5:30pm EST
NEW YORK CITY, NY
Book Launch Party!!
FAQs
Can I order through this website if it is temporarily out of stock on Amazon?
Yes! Our processing team will ship out with a retailer who currently has stock of the book.
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Once you place your order, your book will be shipped out within 1-2 business days
Can I pre-order internationally?
Yes, of course! Please pre-order via the "Non-US" link.


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